I should know how to do this because I've been divorced for about 15 years and dating much of the time but I was recently shocked or dismayed when my daughter told me that if I find a man that I'm interested in I should make the first move, invite him to coffee or a drink. I haven't been doing this and sometimes feel like the good ones "slipped away". I would like to have feedback on this. Has the world changed so much that women have to make the first move now? This is frightening but I know older women who have basically ambushed the man and ended up happily married. Tell me straight, sisters, is this what the world has come to?
CharlieGirl (anonymous) says...
I should know how to do this because I've been divorced for about 15 years and dating much of the time but I was recently shocked or dismayed when my daughter told me that if I find a man that I'm interested in I should make the first move, invite him to coffee or a drink. I haven't been doing this and sometimes feel like the good ones "slipped away". I would like to have feedback on this. Has the world changed so much that women have to make the first move now?
This is frightening but I know older women who have basically ambushed the man and ended up happily married. Tell me straight, sisters, is this what the world has come to?
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