From a male perspective, I think we men are less critical of the way we represent ourselves. Of course plenty of people lie about the way the look and thier age. I wonder though, if they are really lieing or are (we) men just less controlled by outside factors about our appearance? Men don't EVER call up another guy and ask, "hey should I wear the blue slacks or the blue jeans"? We tend to wear what "we" think looks good on us. Many times that is dictated by comfort. So, yes, this guy probably found a picture of himself that he liked and figured he may have aged a little but, the man inside of him hasn't really changed. He may not have seen this as misrepresentation. Just a thought. Oh, is it okay for men to post on here also?? Unlike some men, I think the best way to understand women is to read post like these and get a feeling for what women are looking for, what their thoughts are, etc. Unkown1
As an adult, I am usually to tired to have any fun. At least that is what my body tells my mind. What I have found to be interesting is, that if I really really try hard, my mind can wrest back control over my body and I can actually go do fun stuff. By the end of the evening I am exhausted, but elated. My mental health is high, my physical health is invigorated and I overall feel wonderful. Fun to me might be racing a go cart in Olathe, or walking with a friend and having a good conversation. It might be drinking a late cup of coffee, and dicsuss a book we both have read. Fun is watching a movie with someone you care for. (and snuggling). Enough for now.
unknown1 (anonymous) says...
From a male perspective, I think we men are less critical of the way we represent ourselves. Of course plenty of people lie about the way the look and thier age. I wonder though, if they are really lieing or are (we) men just less controlled by outside factors about our appearance? Men don't EVER call up another guy and ask, "hey should I wear the blue slacks or the blue jeans"? We tend to wear what "we" think looks good on us. Many times that is dictated by comfort. So, yes, this guy probably found a picture of himself that he liked and figured he may have aged a little but, the man inside of him hasn't really changed. He may not have seen this as misrepresentation. Just a thought. Oh, is it okay for men to post on here also?? Unlike some men, I think the best way to understand women is to read post like these and get a feeling for what women are looking for, what their thoughts are, etc. Unkown1
On Misrepresentation
February 2, 2007 at 12:36 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
unknown1 (anonymous) says...
As an adult, I am usually to tired to have any fun. At least that is what my body tells my mind. What I have found to be interesting is, that if I really really try hard, my mind can wrest back control over my body and I can actually go do fun stuff. By the end of the evening I am exhausted, but elated. My mental health is high, my physical health is invigorated and I overall feel wonderful. Fun to me might be racing a go cart in Olathe, or walking with a friend and having a good conversation. It might be drinking a late cup of coffee, and dicsuss a book we both have read. Fun is watching a movie with someone you care for. (and snuggling). Enough for now.
On This girl just wants to have fun
January 18, 2007 at 5:03 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )